Christmas is stressful because of the people. The ones you love. The ones you’re supposed to love. The ones that are difficult to love. The ones who would make Christmas more merry if you didn’t have to see them. Christmas is the time we’re reconnected with our family, and reminded of unresolved issues within our family. Christmas is the time where for an hour or two, or maybe day or two, you have to pretend that your family is the perfect family everybody thinks you are, not the dysfunctional family you know you are. It’s Christmas. You’re supposed to be cheerful. In part 1 of this Christmas series, we’re going to unwrap treating someone that hurt you the way you want to, and have every right to, makes you like the person you dislike.